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"A family residing in the northern part of London is looking for an exceptional and experienced instructor to guide their smallest child on his early path to becoming an English gentleman."

When reading this advertisement, you might naturally skip the phrase "beginning" as just an expression.

But, it could be the most significant part of this unusual position posting, as it attempts to hire a mentor for a 12-month-old.

Numerous of applications have already been received since the anonymous family published their request for the £180,000 per year tutor, who has to be "someone very special".

In recent few weeks, the listing has received notice throughout the news, with numerous questioning why?

Innovative Idea

The CEO, chief executive of an education consultancy, which is assisting the family in their search, explained that despite initial scepticism, he viewed the concept "far sighted", and "advanced".

When he met the family, he said they appreciated the atypical character of their request, and how immature their son is.

However, they stated that they "were unwilling to delay any longer" to get a tutor, as they had waited until their firstborn was five, and by that stage "cultural conditioning had already become established".

What precisely does the family refer to by "cultural leaning"?

It's "everything", he answered. "How you eat, the manner you speak".

He explained the elder child had adopted "very nuanced, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had taken on their cultural ways. The family explained to Adam they did not want this pattern to recur with their new baby.

The plan: To bring in a English tutor, who must speak with Received Pronunciation, to guide the baby right from the beginning.

Osmotic Learning

"Much of the development at the outset here is somewhat acquired indirectly," said the CEO.

It's through this osmosis that the family are aiming the child will adopt the English characteristics they aim to impart.

He said the tutor must be an individual who attended "the appropriate educational institutions – similar types of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The tutor must be the right kind of person, they'll be doing things they may not realize they're doing, just naturally," he added.

Cost Not Relevant

The family informed Adam the selected educator should ideally also have knowledge of or passion in riding, skiing, the arts and instrumental training so as to shape the child in a broad spectrum of hobbies.

More than that though, he said the family hoped the tutor to sign up the child on a range of lessons so the child would be "equestrian training and starting an tool by the time they are around three years old".

In the family's view, guiding their son become a "English gentleman" will result in accomplishment and create opportunities.

"Taking into account the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's certainly a social class indicator," he comments.

But, in spite of all this guidance in "Britishness", might the child absorb alleged cultural leaning from the globally influenced family he lives with regardless?

"Yes", answered Adam. "The family realize this could fail, but they've just taken the perspective of, 'we should try and let's go as early as we can', because the expense of it is irrelevant," he explained.

Idealistic and Unrealistic

Several in the private teaching field who have those concerns.

Another CEO, chief executive of an educational organization, who provides private tutors, stated that "the process of becoming bicultural, or indeed, discovering oneself, is something that must be experienced personally, not engineered."

He explained that he had emigrated from the Far East to the Britain at the time of 7 years old, and had been educated knowing and practicing two backgrounds. He continued to study at a prestigious UK institution.

"The idea that one individual can act as a representation of UK identity, someone who can somehow transplant the characteristics of a British gentleman onto a 12-month-old child, strikes me as optimistic and impractical," he stated.

"In my experience, employing a quintessentially British tutor from infancy will will not instantly produce the goal they desire.

"I did not have such a figure, and however I have been lucky enough to live numerous of the opportunities they aspire for their son."

He added: "The fact is, cultural identity should not be forced from the external environment; it must be embraced, and it must be internally driven."

Buying Britishness

Certainly, UK identity is something the CEO believes can be educated – and commercialized.

"In my view the reality that the global community regards us in this light is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating